
If your thinking about getting someone to do some work around your house, this is a good article to check out!!!!
Tall Tales Your Contractor Tells
Josh Garskof
Even honest contractors occasionally play a bit fast and loose with the truth. All tradesmen are looking to maximize profits and minimize hassle -- and that can end up costing you extra money.
So don't take everything a contractor says as gospel, says David Fogt, chief of enforcement for the California Contractors State License Board. Try these strategies to neutralize three classic fibs without harming your working rapport.
What He Says: "I don't have any wiggle room on my price."
What He Means: "I'm hoping you'll pay my boom-time rates."
During the real estate bust, even top contractors have been forced to drop their bids as much as 10% to 40% to compete for the dwindling pool of jobs. Yours surely has too -- unless he thinks he has your business locked up at any price.
How to Respond: Get bids from a couple of other well-regarded companies -- and let your contractor know. Says Bob Peterson, a spokesman for the National Association of Home Builders: "That'll make me sharpen my pencil."
What He Says: "I need money upfront for materials."
What He Means: "I have to pay outstanding bills from other jobs."
Any well-established tradesman has 30 to 90 days to pay his suppliers. Asking you to prepay is a sign that he's either had his credit revoked or needs cash for something else (which could leave him short on your job). Regardless, you don't want to put your dough at risk if he suddenly can't complete the project.
How to Respond: Tell him you'll prepay the lesser of $1,000 or 10% of the price, says Fogt. If you have a costly special order that's non-returnable, offer to pay the supply house directly. If he balks? Another $1,000 or 10% will show him you're serious -- but don't cough up more.
What He Says: "You'll save on property taxes if you skip the permit for a small job."
What He Means: "My life would be easier if we did this job illicitly."
Even a small job requires a permit if you're installing walls, wiring, or plumbing lines. Inspectors check the crew's licensing, insurance, and code compliance. But if you aren't adding square footage or a major amenity like a new bathroom, you won't see a property tax hike, says Bill Carroll, president of the International Association of Assessing Officers.
How to Respond: Politely insist on a permit, and expect to pay $300 to $500 for the application fee and the contractor's time.
And don't let him talk you into getting the permit yourself. Then you bear all the responsibility for compliance -- and you shouldn't let a contractor off the hook that easily.
Tuesday, July 06, 2010
Interesting article
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Witch Blog

Hop over and check out this pretty give a way! But don't enter, please, really.... don't enter!!!! You DON'T want to win this one... IT'S MINE!!!! (evil wicked cackle!!!)
Awwww, go ahead and enter.... I'll forgive you if you win.... really I will.... promise not to cast a single spell on ya!!!
http://www.witch-blog.com/
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Monday, July 05, 2010
Sunday, July 04, 2010
Suffering!!!!!

I know, this is a horrible picture!!!
But, this is ME right now!!!
Being on this allergy reduction diet has taught me many things....
1. without all those crappy allergens I feel FANTASTIC!
2. there is almost NOTHING left that I can eat!!
3. I can survive on salads!!!!
4. I can survive with lack of differences in my diet!!!
And then the BOY CAME HOME!!!!
I was fine all winter with this diet, so what if I can only eat seafood, salad, cheese, and yogurt???
I'm totally cool with that.
But then the BOY came home for the summer and the SMELLS FROM THE KITCHEN!!!!!
Oh my Goddess!!!!!
It's driving me around the bend!!!!!
He cooks, every day, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day!!!! FOOD THAT I CAN NO LONGER EAT!!!!
The smells are just about bringing me to my knee's!!!!!!
I sit in the living room, sniffing the aromas, and I'm just about ready to cry!!!
I HAVE TO BE STRONG!!!!
I HAVE NO CHOICE ABOUT STAYING ON THIS DIET!!! The Allergies were killing me!!! I know that.... yet I want to take a WHOLE BOTTLE OF BENADRYL AND EAT MYSELF SICK!!!
AAAAARRRRRRRRRHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!
But, don't worry, I know how sick I'll get, just from letting one little item I'm allergic to..back into my diet.....
And now that I'm allergy free.... I feel so freaking FANTASTIC!!! Why would I want to feel like shit again???
My only hope is that the summer will be over soon, and HE WILL GO BACK TO SCHOOL!!!
And once again, I will regain my sanity, and feel good about my life style choices!!!
SIGH!!! It can't come fast enough for me!!!!!!!!
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Saturday, July 03, 2010
I would like to add......

Most people think of the witch trials as ONLY the ones in Salem!
WRONG!!!!
All over Europe it is estimated that 50-80 THOUSAND, women were killed during the hysteria in Europe....
50 TO 80 THOUSAND!!!!!!
More then the entire population of London at the time!!!!
And those were only the ones that there are court records for!!!!!!
This was NOT an isolated event in a town in the new world!!!
Posted by Judith at 12:57 PM 1 comments
The need to educate others

Wicca is a pagan religion containing traditions of England, Ireland, Scotland, and Wales.
(Pagan religion family includes Druidism, Asatru, wiccan, Greek, and Roman ). Its origins can be traced even further back to Paleolithic peoples who worshipped a Hunter God and a Fertility Goddess. Cave paintings found in France (and dated at 30,000 years old) depict a man with the head of a stag, and a woman with a swollen, pregnant belly. They stand in a circle with eleven mortals. These archetypes of the divine are worshipped by Wiccans to this very day.
In 1951, the laws against Witchcraft were repealed in England.
For two thousand years the image of the Witch has been associated with evil, heathenism, and blasphemy.
These ideas have their origin in Christian myths created to convert members of the Old Religion to that of the new, Christianity.
By making the Witch into a diabolical character of ill intent and action, the Christian missionaries were able to attach fear to a word that had once meant HEALER, WISE ONE, and SEER.
These fears are present to this day. When we think of the archetypal image of the Witch, we remember the evil enchantress of childhood tales. We think of an old, wrinkled hag with a nasty wart on her nose. We think of hexes, and devils, and foul incantations chanted around a bubbling cauldron. While the modern witches have been known to stir up herbal remedies in a cauldron, we are a far cry indeed from the horrifying Wicked Witch of the West!
Witches Do Not Worship Satan.
To believe in Satan, one must subscribe to the Christian mythos. Wicca does not have any belief in, nor do we worship a concept of evil incarnate. All life is perceived as a constant flow of positive and negative energies, which intertwine to create the balance of life.
Witches Do Not Cast Evil Spells. Modern Witches have a very strict belief in the Law of Return. Whatever is send out into our world shall return, so even the most ill-tempered Witch would not consider doing magic to harm another being. The spells do involve things like HEALING, LOVE, WISDOM, CREATIVITY, and JOY. The 'potions' might be a headache remedy, or a cold tonic, or an herbal flea bath for the family dog.
Immanent Divinity. Wiccans believe that the spirit of God/dess exists in every living thing: in the trees, the rain, the flowers, the sea, and in each other. This means that we must treat our peers, and all the beings of the Earth as aspects of the Divine. Wiccans honour and respect life, in all its many and diverse expressions.
(Pantheism - Deity is everywhere from the Classical Greek 'Pan' meaning all and 'Theos' meaning God and 'Thea' meaning Goddess.
Polytheism - Many Gods and Goddesses which are aspects of the God and the Goddess. The God and the Goddess are aspects of The All That Is. Comes from the Classical Greek 'Polla' meaning many and Theos' meaning God and 'Thea' meaning Goddess.
Animism - Everything is alive. This is true because everything is made up of atoms which are constantly moving, except Absolute Zero where all matter is supposed to stop, but that temperature has not been reached. Comes from 'Animum' meaning Soul in Latin.)
Nature.
Wiccans learn from and worship nature by celebrating the cycles of the sun, and the cycles of the moon. Wiccans look inward for the cycles within that correspond to those of the natural world, and try to move in harmony with the movement of life. Teachers come in the form of trees, rivers, lakes, meadows, and mountains, as well as other humans who have walked the path before. This belief infers a reverence and respect for the environment, and all of life upon the Earth. Wiccans revere the spirits of the elements that create our world. Air, Fire, Water, and Earth combine to manifest all creation. From these four elements they gain wisdom, and understanding of how the universe unfolds. The rhythms of nature are the rhythms of our lives. Wiccans attempt to dance in step with the pulse of the Earth.
Other Faiths.
Modern Witches believe in freedom first ! They do not choose to look at our path as the 'one true right way,' but as one path among many to the center. They do not convert new members to the Craft, nor do they advertise or prosteletize. They believe that anyone who is meant for this path will find it through their own search. Wiccans practice tolerance and acceptance toward all other religions, as long as those faiths do not preach or commit harm to others.
Afterlife.
Most Witches believe in reincarnation of some sort, whether it be the Eastern version known as the Transmigration of Souls (the spirit incarnating one body after another in an effort to learn all the life lessons that it can), or Ancestral Incarnation (where the spirit and life lessons of the grandfather transmute to the granddaughter, and so on down the genetic line). The latter is a more traditionally Celtic approach, but both are accepted.
Sin.
Wiccans do not have a specific concept of sin. There is no heaven or hell that souls will go to based on their worldly actions. Wrong-doing is governed and determined by the individual conscience. With the belief in the Law of Return, and loosely karma, one's actions will determine one's future. The individual is therefore responsible for his or her own fate, based on what he or she chooses to do internally and externally in the world.
Karma -
the force generated by a person's actions held to perpetuate transmigration and in its ethical consequences to determine the nature of the person's next existence
Dharma - the basic principles of cosmic or individual existence
Samsara - The continuous cycle of life, death and rebirth
For example in a football game:
People have their place in a game, this can be equated to dharma. At the end of the game the coach sees how well, or poorly, someone has done, This is similar to karma. In the next game,the player goes through this cycle again. This is like samasara.
Ethics.
Wicca has but one law of action and ethics. It is called the Wiccan Rede or the Wiccan Law, 'And ye harm none' covers almost everything that the Ten Commandments do: don't lie, don't steal, don't cheat, etc. It encourages us to strive not to harm any living thing - including ourselves - except perhaps to survive.
Whether this means that you must become a vegetarian or a passivist is up to the individual. The Wiccan Law serves as a guideline to action, not a mandate.
The only law that the Ten Commandments express that is not covered by the Wiccan Law is that of marriage and adultery. In Wicca, love itself is sanctified, with or without government authorization. As long as two individuals share a sincere bond of love that does not harm either party, it does not matter if they are legally joined, if they are heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or interracial.
Leadership vs. Hierarchy.
There is no Arch Bishop of Wicca. There is no one person or organization that determines the practices and beliefs of Wicca as a whole. Instead, Wicca is formed of small nebulas groups and solitaries who are charged with the leadership of themselves. Wicca is a religion of clergy, not followers. Each person who seriously pursues the Craft, whether it be through study in a particular tradition, or through self-teaching and private learning, has the choice to become a priest or priestess of Wicca. Most modern traditions of Wicca offer a three year program of learning that will bring the student to the level of High Priest or Priestess. [the word High Priest/ess means servant; one who serves the God, the Goddess, the community, nature, and Life. It does not mean that a High Priestess is higher or better than anyone else.
Churches and Temples.
Wiccans do not usually have churches created specifically for the worship of the gods. The temple is found in nature, among the creations of the divine. Wiccans meet in a circle that represents the Circle of Life, and equality. There is no head, no top, no beginning and no end. When necessary, circles take place indoors in houses, apartments, or wherever a sacred, protected space can be found. But ideally, a circle will take place in a grove beneath the stars, with the silver moon shining down from above.
Magic.
Witches believe in the power of magic to create change. A prominent Wiccan author named Starhawk defines magic as 'the art of changing consciousness at will.' Aleister Crowley as the 'art and science of causing change in accordance with the Will.' And last, but not least, Moshe Idel 'drawing down of the divine effluence for the benefit of the community.'
Wiccans use herbs, oils, colors, stones, crystals, and other symbolic materials to represent the change they wish to create. Wiccans believe that the individual is responsible for his or her own reality. If there is something that is not healthy, or conducive to happiness and growth, they have the power to change it. As aspects of the divine, they are each Creator and Creatress, filled with the power to manifest all that we dream of or desire.
Principles of Belief
The council of American Witches finds it necessary to define modern Witchcraft in terms of the American experience and needs.
We are not bound by traditions from other times and other cultures, and owe no allegiance to any person or power greater than the Divinity manifest through our own being.
As American Witches, we welcome and respect all life-affirming teachings and traditions, and seek to learn from all and to share our learning with our Council.
It is in this spirit of welcome and cooperation that we adopt these few principals of Wiccan belief. In seeking to be inclusive, we do not wish to open ourselves to the destruction of our group by those on self-serving power trips, or to philosophies and practices contradictory to ours, we do not want to deny participation with us to any who are sincerely interested in our knowledge and beliefs, regardless of race, color, sex, age, national or cultural origins, or sexual preference.
We therefore ask only that those who seek to identify with us accept these few basic principles:
1) We practice rites to attune ourselves with the natural rhythm of life forces marked by the phases of the Moon and the seasonal quarters and cross-quarters.
2) We recognize that our intelligence gives us a unique responsibility toward our environment. We seek to live in harmony with Nature, in ecological balance offering fulfillment to life and consciousness within an evolutionary concept.
3) We acknowledge a depth of power far greater than is apparent to the average person. Because it is far greater than ordinary, it is sometimes called “supernatural,” but we see it as lying within that which is naturally potential to all.
4) We conceive of the Creative Power in the Universe as manifesting through polarity - as masculine and femenine - and that this same creative Power lives in all people, and functions through the interaction of the masculine and femenine. We value neither above the other, knowing each to be supportive of the other. We value sexuality as pleasure, as the symbol and embodiment of Life, and as one of the sources of energies used in magical practice and religious worship.
5) We recognize both outer worlds and inner, our psychological worlds - sometimes known as the Spiritual world, the Collective Unconscious, the Inner Planes, etc. - and we see in the interaction of these two dimensions the basis for paranormal phenomena and magical exercises. We neglect neither dimension for the other, seeing both as necessary for our fulfillment.
6) We do not recognize any authoritarian hierarchy, but do honor those who teach, respect those who share their greater knowledge and wisdom, and acknowledge those who have courageously given of themselves in leadership.
7) We see religion, magic, and wisdom-in-living as being united in the way one views the world and lives within it - a world view and philosopy of life, which we identify as Witchcraft or the Wiccan Way.
8) Calling oneself “Witch” does not make a Witch - but neither does hereditary itself, or the collecting of titles, degrees, and initiations.
A Witch seeks o control the forces within him/herself that make life possible in order to live wisely and well, without harm to others, and in harmony with nature.
9) We acknowlede that it is the affirmation and fulfillment of life, in a continuation of evolution and development of consciousness, that gives meaning to the Universe we know, and to our personal role within it.
10) Our only animosity toward Christianity, or toward any other religion or philosophy-of-life, is to the extent that its institutions have claimed to be “the one true right and only way” and have sought to deny freedom to others and to suppress other ways of religious practices and belief.
11) As American Witches, we are not threatened by debates on the history of the Craft, the origins of various terms, the legitimacy of various aspects of different traditions. We are concerned with our present, and our future.
12) We do not accept the concept of “absolute evil,” nor do we worship any entity known as “Satan” or “the Devil” as defined by Christian Tradition. We do not seek power through the suffering of others, nor do we accept the concept that personal benifits can only be derived by denial to another.
13) We work within Nature for that which is contributory to our health and well-being.
Brief History
Paganism has been around and alive since the beginning of time. Documentation of magic and witchcraft exists even in the oldest texts. Numerous cave drawings all over the world depict symbols of the gods and goddesses worshipped throughout history. Paganism is the oldest form of religion.
Wicca is a Nature oriented religion, that puts emphasis on honoring both The God and The Goddess, and living in harmony with all things in the Universe. It can be practiced in a group, called a Coven, or it can be practiced as a Solitary Witch. We do not worship satan!
The devil is an anti-Pagan propaganda device invented by the Christian church. He (or, more appropriately, "it") had never existed in written literature prior to the New Testament. The Craft is a pre- Christian religion which has been around much longer than the church or its concept of satan, who was never worshipped as a deity of the Old Religion. The devil is strictly a part of the Christian belief system, not the Nature-loving earth religion of Wicca. However, we do acknowledge the light and the dark sides of things, including religions.
There are also some very special Wiccan Holidays that are celebrated throughout the year. These holidays represent the honoring of The God and The Goddess, and the cycle of Nature.
Witches have an inseparable partnership to Mother Earth and celebrate Her turns of the wheel as Sabbats and Esbats. The Wheel of the Year marks the Sun's journey across the sky, the solstices, equinoxes and the Earth's changing seasons.
Each spoke of the wheel marks an important moment of progression and change in the Earth. Witches will celebrate the holiday starting the day before until the day after the sabbath date.
The Wiccan religious calendar contains 13 Full Moon celebrations and 8 Sabbats or days of power. The Sabbats are solar rituals, marking the points of the Sun’s yearly cycle, and are but half of the Wiccan ritual year. The Esbats are the Wiccan Full Moon celebrations. There are 12-13 Full Moons yearly, or one every 28 1/4 days. The
Moon is a symbol of the Goddess as well as a source of energy. Thus, after the religious aspects of the Esbats, Wiccans often practice magic, tapping into the larger amounts of energy which are thought to exist at these times. Most rites are held at night. The eight Sabbats represent seasonal birth, death, and rebirth.
Witchcraft is recognized in the United States and in at least some parts of Canada as a legitimate religion. In I985, Dettmer v. Landon, the District Court of Virginia pursuant to rule 52 (a) of the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure, ruled that Witchcraft falls within a recognizable religious category and therefore is protected by the Constitution. I'm sure it is also recognized in other countries as well. Also, check out The U.S. Armed Forces Chaplain's Handbook section on Wicca.
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Friday, July 02, 2010
Spell Bottle

I was looking in my book of shadows, and I found an old spell for making "spell bottles".
My grandmother collected bottles of all types! Tall, short, wine, cider, bottles, just bottles. She wouldn't clean them up, if it was a soda bottle, she would leave some soda in it, and so on! Then she would store them for what she called Bottle spells.
Think back when you were a kid, if you ever saw a house with broken glass in front of it, or a store with a broken bottle next to it, etc.... the people there could have had a spell bottle taken to them.
It's really quite simple, and doesn't need anything besides a bottle with a cap or cork. Find a spell you would like to use.... and sit in quiet with the bottle in your hands... open.
then you lean down and recite the spell into the bottle... just once, and without any additional stuff the spell says to have. (you know most of the time, stones, feathers, or other hoop ha is just for show... all you really need is the WORDS!)
With your last word, breath a full breath into the bottle, and cap it!
Then it's "OH DEAR!" time. You take the bottle, and get as close as you can get to the person, building, etc.
And accidentally DROP the bottle on something hard!!! "OH DEAR! LOOK WHAT I'VE DONE!!! I'M SUCH A CLUMSY IDIOT!!"
Of course you shouldn't try to clean it up!!! All that broken glass could cut you... act flustered if someone see's you... they will agree with you that you could cut yourself... just leave it!
And there you have a bottle spell. Out in the open, where anyone can see it... and know one will be the wiser to what you've just done!!
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Oils

Don't spend a fortune buying ready made oils, make your own!
MAGIC EXCALIBUR OIL
1/4 ounce almond oil, 15 drops lemon oil, 5 drops rose geranium oil,
9 drops orange oil, 1 drop cinnamon oil, 4 drops thyme oil, 14 drops lavender oil,
2 drops ginger oil. flower: Rose: clear quartz
HOW TO MAKE STAR OIL
1/4 ounce almond oil 10 drops lemon oil 7 drops jasmine oil
7 drops rosemary oil 17 drops chamomile oil 5 drops sandalwood oil
MAGIC FULL MOON OIL
13 drops of sandalwood essential oil 9 drops of vanilla essential oil or extract
3 drops of jasmine essential oil 1 drop of rose essential oil
Mix prior to a full moon. Charge in a clear container or vial in the light of the full moon.
Use to anoint candles or yourself for full moon rituals or just when you feel like you need
the moons energy.
MAGIC PROTECTION OIL
Protection Oils are used to anoint any manner of objects in order to
enhance the purity of spiritual vibrations. This 1 is best made on The Dark of the Moon.
* 1 dram-sized bottle * 1/2 dram Sweet Almond Oil * 3 drops Amber Oil
* 1 drop Jasmine Oil * 7 drops Dark Musk Oil (Plain Musk may be substituted)
* 5 drops Rue Oil * 3 small pieces Dragon's Blood Resin * 1 pinch coarse Sea Salt
Add the ingredients and shake, to mix well, after each addition.
MAGIC PROTECTION OIL
* 1 dram Patchouli Oil * 1 dram each of Frankincense Oil & Myrrh Oil
* 1 tsp. broken pieces of Mandrake Root * 3 heaping tsp. coarse Sea Salt
Simmer over a low-heat in an enamel pan. Let cool. Pour into small bottles and charge.
MAGIC PROTECTION POTION
* 2-4 Cups of Spring Water, as a base * 1 Tble. Powdered Iron or Iron Shavings
* 1 tsp. Vervain * 2 Tble. Sea Salt * 2 Tble. of each frankincense & Myrrh
* A pinch of Wolf's hair from a live, shedding Wolf (ask a local Zoo keeper)
MAGIC SLEEP SPELL & OIL
To Induce You will need:
1/2 oz carrier oil 12 drops bergamot 3 drops lavender 3 drops cypress
Directions: In 1/2 oz of carrier oil (I used apricot kernel, sweet almond would also be good),
mix 12 drops of bergamot, 3 drops lavender and 3 drops cypress.
To increase the benefits of your sleep, apply a few drops behind your ears,
spreading the excess out over your jawline.
Do this immediately before bed.
This is a good oil blend for people who have trouble falling asleep at night,
or for people who sleep restlessly.
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